Words with P.R. (Edition 12) - Nobody Wins When the Family Feuds

By Patricia Rogers | Posted Friday, June 17, 2022

I am happy to finally be recapping the time I had at last month’s Invictus Pro Wrestling show in Ridgefield Park, New Jersey. It was one of the first big wrestling shows that would bring my favorite people in black wrestling together again since Wrestlemania 38 in Dallas. However, this one was special because it indeed was a family affair.

If you listen to my wrestling podcast, you have heard me talk about how my Dad got us all into wrestling. When I was growing up in the 90’s, it was all about watching Monday Night RAW. The weekly program during the “Attitude Era” was must-watch television. This was before streaming, YouTube, etc. So you had to make sure that you watched it when it aired or you would miss out. It was truly an exciting time, and I feel lucky to have experienced this with my family.

The monthly pay-per-views though is when the entire family got together. I have always been blessed to live down the hall from my God family. My Godmother, sister, and brothers were always close enough so that we can share our lives together. And wrestling, there was no exception. On those Sunday nights, they would come down the hall to watch the shows with us. My mom would cook a big meal, and it was the one Sunday a month where we could all stay up past my bedtime.

My Dad is surprised that we all still love wrestling the way that we do. But I think the most surprising part for him and me is the impact it had on my Godbrother, who is now a wrestler named J Boujii.  

When I got back into wrestling around 2015, I was in love with it all over again. But it was the history and what goes on outside of the ring that fascinated me the most. This led to creating the podcast. However, when I talked to my Godbrother, it was all about what was inside the ring. He told me that he was working towards the goal of the Best Wrestler in the World.

You know at first, I was kind of worried and also like, are you sure you want to do this? The more I learned about the wrestling business, especially breaking into it, the more I was concerned that he was in way over his head. J Boujii, real name John Ruebel, was born in 1997 and was really close to my twin sister Letty and I. Letty and I were the youngest, so when John was born it was the first time we had someone younger to be around. So from the day he was born, we were protective of him.

He assured me that he knew what he was doing and was training with the best. I was able to watch him in some of his first matches and at the gym he was training with. Going to Gleason’s Gym in Brooklyn where he trained with WWE Hall of Famer Johnny Rodz, my concern eased greatly when I was able to see what a leader John was. He was smart, mature, and determined to make it and for the wrestling business to work for him.

So after having a couple of years of the wrestling podcast under my belt, I was able to reconnect with John to see how we can work together in wrestling because we exist on completely different sides of things — him being the athlete in the ring telling stories, and me commenting on wrestling outside of the ring. Earlier this year, I noticed that he was going to be in the biggest match of his career thus far.  

J Boujii and the other three members of his faction, Takeover, were facing one of the most popular and successful factions on the independent wrestling scene, Shane Taylor Promotions. I was so excited because we all knew that this was the moment that would put J. Boujii on the map. This match was going to be a game-changer.

In the months leading up to the Invictus Takeover vs STP show, my Godbrother went into overdrive promoting the show all over social media. And his opponent Rev Ron Hunt of STP, did all that he could to hype the match. After an eventful Instagram Live, the hype was tangible as it became a Croc vs Ring light debate, which brought wrestling podcast producer Brian H. Waters into the storyline. So, the most anticipated match for the Takeover vs STP show was now a Bodega Street Fight having J. Boujii facing Rev Ron Hunt with Brian H. Waters serving as the guest referee.

Brian, also a lifelong wrestling fan, lived a dream that night in Ridgefield Park, NJ:

“Refereeing at Invictus Pro was an experience of a lifetime. As a pro wrestling fan, for my entire life I never thought that I would have an opportunity to do such a job.

Being in the ring, you could feel the electricity of the moment as both J. Boujii and Rev Ron Hunt entered the ring. ‘Big fight feel’ would be the best way to describe it.

During the match, I was doing my best not to mess up. I didn’t want to draw attention to myself or get in the way. Both men are professionals and knew that this was my first time being a referee, so they were patient with me.

The stipulation was if J. Boujii won, I would have to wear Crocs. He did get in my face one time, so my hands may have hit the surface a little quickly when Ron pinned him the first time. But in the end, I did count to three and unfortunately wear those Crocs. But one thing I can say… I was fair.

This is def something I would love to do it again… if the storyline dictates it.”

You can watch the full match here.

I could not be more proud of my Godbrother and his crew that came up in Gleason’s Gym. It was a night that showed me that I had nothing to worry about when it came to John. If anything, I became the biggest J. Boujii fan and can not wait to see how far he goes in this business. And what made that show the most memorable wrestling event I have ever been to, is that it was truly a family affair.

My Godsister Ivory (John’s mother) was there, my twin sister Letty took phenomenal photos of the event, and my closest friends Krista B., Seindole, Justin, Janelle and Dre of Jobber Tears Podcast were there. Brian H. Waters, one of my favorite people in the wrestling space, traveled from Baltimore, Maryland to guest referee, bringing along his Wrestling Wrealm brother Hugh.

The funniest part though is that during the Bodega Street Fight, I was so happy to be there I pretty much cheered for everyone. Much to my Godsister’s chagrin, who hated that I cheered for Ron. But I am also a Shane Taylor Promotions fan. I was just so happy about both Takeover and the STP factions getting more recognition. And then to have Brian, Hugh, and Letty a part of it, and my friends sitting front row, I was just soo happy to be there.

This show emphasized that it is important to support your friends and family at any level. And everything is more special when there are loved ones around. I can not wait to do more in the independent wrestling space that will continue to uplift the black community.

MEET

Stephen Thompson, CEO of SZN Media

I met Stephen in Dallas, Texas through Brian who was his mentor when they were at Morgan State together. He shared that he also worked in media, recently moved to New Jersey from Maryland, and wanted to do more with his business, SZN Media.

What are your goals for SZN Media?

Stephen: My goals with SZN Media is to bring seasons to life! This can be anything a client may need from a media standpoint in order to propel them in their purpose. Overall, my goal for SZN Media is to grow it to a successful marketing agency with a full staff and office environment.

What is the best piece of advice you have received? 

Stephen: The best piece of advice I heard was “Impact”. Impact is an abbreviation that my grandfather used and it means “I must personally act.” This means that within life, I am in many situations and it’s up to me to make change and provide action when necessary.

SOCIAL MEDIA MARKETING TIPS

In 2022, nothing matters in life if you do not create media content surrounding it. Think about it, do we do anything without documenting it on social media? Whether its checking in on Facebook, posting photos on Instagram, or creating TikToks, we all feel the compulsion to capture moments and curate them for the world for your followers to see. Your social media presence, depending on what you do for a living, is the snapshot of who you are as a person. That is a lot of pressure, but it is important to make sure that it is the highest quality.

So make sure that when you do capture these moments, like when I wanted to get good memories of J. Bouji’’s big match, take the time to have professional photographers, videographers, etc. Investing in your brand is the best thing you can do .

Interview with Rory D'Lasnow (New Release, "Songs From An Empty Room")

By Deaglan Howlett | Posted Friday, April 15, 2022

Hailing from Bergen County, NJ, Rory D’Lasnow has been penned a “golden voiced troubadour” (NJ.com), and his latest release “Songs From An Empty Room” further proves that notion. Having released music since 2011, Rory continues to dig deeper and tap into raw emotions that listeners can't help but feel connected to. Rory is also responsible for starting The Songwriter Showcase, which was a web series during the height of the pandemic in order to keep songwriters together and inspired through those trying times. Following the release of “Songs From An Empty Room”, Rory was kind enough to answer some questions about the record and his process upon the return of his run of shows in California. Thanks again, Rory!

When did you first start releasing your own music?

I put out my first EP in 2011 right after college. I’ve been singing, writing songs, and playing guitar upside down and backwards since I was five, but I took a while to really be consistent and intentional about it. While I had my first proper “show" at twelve at the local library, my journey has involved a lot of fits and starts due to anxiety, self-doubt, and loss but I’m here now and I feel like having taken such a circuitous path has given me some sort of perspective and ability to hopefully encourage others who face similar challenges.

Who were your biggest influences when first picking up guitar?

I was obsessed with The Beatles as a kid — I wanted to be John Lennon so badly haha. Now I’m more of a Paul guy — but their presence loomed large in my musical development. I also really loved Queen, The Everly Brothers, and Billy Joel though, of course, he wasn’t much of a guitarist! Basically, anything other than the era I was born into. That changed eventually, though. And now I’m a sworn emo kid forever. 

You run The Songwriters Showcase. How did you start that community? What inspires you most when meeting different songwriters?

I do! I initially started it as a way to just stay connected with and provide a small platform for my pals in the music scene during the COVID pandemic, but then it grew a bit to include over 250 artists across twelve countries which is something I’m super proud of and still super shocked by. I probably most enjoy hearing about different folks’ approaches to the craft. There are so many different ways to arrive at this common goal of writing a song that is evocative (and maybe a bit catchy, too).

You’re about to head to the West Coast for a few shows. Will this be your first time playing out there? Where has your favorite out-of-state show been?

Yes! I actually just got back from my first three shows in LA — it was! I lived in the SF area for a bit around 2014, but I only played an open mic or two as I was focused on pursuing “rational” things like a career at a startup in the Silicon Valley (what could be more irrational than ignoring your creative passions?). I was fortunate enough to link up with some fantastic like-minded musicians out in LA, though, for a few shows and I was ecstatic to have the chance to play at Hotel Cafe, which is an unreal space that some great musicians have come through.

The shows in LA definitely are up there, but one other spot I really enjoyed playing was Birmingham, AL with my buddies Anna Hope and John Armstrong Feller. I did a little southern run in January across eight cities and I’d never been anywhere in Alabama but everybody there was so warm and welcomed me with open arms. Knoxville, TN was a really cool one, too — shout out to Melissa Hale!

Favorite show you played in New Jersey?

Oh man — there have been so many great ones for so many different reasons, but I recently had the chance to open for my buddy Jarod Clemons down at Wonder Bar in Asbury Park in celebration of his father, Clarence Clemons, and it was a really special night in so many ways. Jarod and I unfortunately both know what it’s like to have lost our parents and the evening really was just a spectacular way to commemorate them and the impact they had on us. He was kind enough to invite me back up to do “My Hero” with him (RIP Taylor Hawkins — I still can’t believe it) in honor of our dads, and there were just a lot of emotions that came to the surface. It’s been a long, winding road to playing music more consistently for me, but moments like that make me so glad that I decided to pursue what I love with reckless abandon. And I’m so grateful for Jarod and all of the other folks who have had my back. That sense of community is something I failed to anticipate when I sat on my hands for the majority of my twenties.

Tell us about your latest EP “Songs From An Empty Room.” What does this record mean to you? What do you hope the listeners will feel from this release?

The record represents so much to me. Most of these songs predate me losing my best pal — my dad, who gave me my first guitar and really helped develop my love of music — but the songs have become increasingly personally relevant to me as many of them touch upon topics like loss, grieving, and depression. My greatest hope is that people can see themselves in the record and feel a sense of comfort upon listening to the songs. I’ve found that one of the greatest qualities of music is its ability to transcend all kinds of circumstances and obstacles to unite people. Being able to share my story and hear stories from others is an indescribable gift. This record is my heart in five songs, so it’s a joy to share.

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You can keep up with all things Rory here and listen to “Songs From An Empty Room” here!

Interview with Jake Benjamin

By Sonia Schnee | Posted Tuesday, December 10, 2019

Last night, Saddle River singer-songwriter Jake Benjamin celebrated the release of his newest single, “4 Hours”, with a show at Rockwood Music Hall in New York. Earlier this year, he also released another new song, "Bound to You.” The two are part of a what will become a “loop pedal trilogy.” You can catch Jake peforming live at Mercury Lounge on January 20 (click here for tickets). In the meantime, check out our interview, below, to learn about the inspiration behind his music.

What's your name, where are you from, where are you based now?

My name is Jake Benjamin, and I am an independent singer-songwriter from Saddle River, NJ. I am currently stationed in Manhattan.

How would you describe your sound?

I would describe my sound as a blend of indie-pop with jazz tendencies.

Who are your musical influences?

My writing has been influenced by artists across many different genres like Damien Rice, Becca Stevens, Björk, Imogen Heap, Mat Kearney, and Bon Iver. I love listening to so many different songwriters who have extremely different approaches to writing and producing their own music.

Congratulations on the success of your single, “Bound to You.” What was the inspiration behind this song?

Thank you so much! "Bound to You" started off as a composition assignment I had toward the end of grad school. Since I had been performing with a vocal loop pedal, my instructor had asked me to compose a loop pedal tune for a class demonstration. After the class demonstration had gone by, I had this wordless composition. Towards the end of my Master's degree, I had a date with this girl one night and after I had gotten home, I started to think about what it would be like to find someone I really found a connection with. I decided to write a stream of consciousness and by 3AM, I had turned the words in my mind into the lyrics of “Bound to You.”

Photography by JMBOESPHOTO.

Tell us a bit about your creative process. Which comes first for you, the melody or the lyrics?

It's kind of a toss up regarding which comes first. It just depends on when I have a concept presented because sometimes it'll be a motif or a type of groove and other times it'll be a lyrical hook.

Is there anyone who you actively collaborate with, or would like to collaborate with in the future?

Well, for “Bound to You” and the next two singles, I had the opportunity to collaborate with my college friends Gabe Berenbaum and Russell Pollack on producing these loop pedal compositions. This is one of the reasons why I love being in NYC, there are so many talented artists that are so open to collaboration. I don't have a single musician I work with all the time, but I do have a few colleagues I love to jam and bounce ideas off of to try and make some new songs happen.

Listen on Spotify.

You just had a new single drop on December 6th, "4 Hours." What can you tell us about the inspiration behind it?

“4 Hours” is the second song of this loop pedal trilogy. It's a song with melancholic and dark themes that came from a very vulnerable time in my life. It really serves as the emotional foil to “Bound to You” where the expectation in an incredible moment with someone turns into obsession. It's a rather difficult moment for me to relive when I play this live because this song is tethered to a connection that happened a year ago in a snowstorm.

What has you personal journey been like so far? How’d you get to this point?

It's been a whirlwind to be honest, which is a mix of the good and the rough times. I'm proud of myself for having the guts to keep moving forward even when the gigs haven't been successful. I'm also extremely grateful to have met some of the most amazing people and musicians in New York City and have a network of the most supportive family and friends. I think the challenge for me is making sure that I am not a critic of myself. I tend to get in my head a lot when writing and performing and it does nothing but hinder the artistic process.

Photography by JMBOESPHOTO.

Do you have any words of advice for people who share a similar passion or have maybe faced similar obstacles/challenges?

The only thing I can say is something that my professor told me when I first started gigging: if you feel like your voice should be heard, then nothing should stop you from pursuing a life of an artist.

Finally, what are some ways that fans can connect with you online?

Yes! You can reach me on Facebook (www.facebook.com/jakebenjmusic) and Instagram (@jakebenjmusic). I also have a website which is www.jakebenjaminmusic.com. My released music, "Bound to You" and my EP Finally Back Home are available for your ears on Spotify, Apple Music, Amazon Music, and most major streaming and digital music platform.

Is there anything else you'd like to add?

Thank you so much for the opportunity for this interview. I'm so glad to represent my New Jersey roots as an artist and I hope to make you all proud!

Interview with Rory D'Lasnow

By Sonia Schnee | Posted Tuesday, October 22, 2019

Bergen County singer-songwriter Rory D’Lasnow has been part of New Jersey’s music scene for well over a decade. He recently performed a solo acoustic set as part of Asbury Park PorchFest, earlier this month he was interviewed on Danny Coleman’s ROCK ON RADIO, and he also recently shot a music video for his new single “Never Be Mine” featuring Jamie McClanahan of The Victory Drive (coming soon). Rory released his first EP When All is Fading in 2011, followed by an Acoustic EP in 2015. Last month, he formed a new alternative rock band, Black Rose Revival. Check out our interview with Rory, below, to learn about his journey and the inspiration behind his music.

What’s your name, where are you from originally, and where are you based now?

My name is Rory D'Lasnow. I'm originally from Englewood, NJ and grew up there for sixteen years. I spent some time in Michigan, Pennsylvania, and California - but now I'm back in North Jersey over in Teaneck. The people are a lot friendlier everywhere else (just kidding), but my heart is here.

Tell us about your musical background. You do a bit of everything -- singing, songwriting, and playing multiple instruments.

I have been singing, playing guitar, and writing songs since I was in kindergarten but picked up the guitar upside down and backwards - which is how I still hold it. I actually recently found a home video of my father, who also played guitar, encouraging me to turn the guitar right side up as a little boy, but I seemed to gravitate toward playing it wrong - with the low E string at the bottom, not at the top. I also play a little piano.

How would you describe your genre/style?

I would say I gravitate between an acoustic singer-songwriter style and a harder alternative rock vibe, especially with my band - Black Rose Revival.

Who are your influences?

My influences are pretty varied. I grew up on The Beatles, Everly Brothers, John Fogerty, and other older music. I would say my music is influenced by them to a large extent - but I also am inspired by some more modern rock like Taking Back Sunday, Brand New, Say Anything, and Jimmy Eat World.

What's the inspiration behind your music?

A lot of my inspiration for my music comes from things that have impacted me in life. I often explain to people that I lost my mother when I was fourteen and this strongly shaped my world view and provided a lot of the ideas behind some of my sadder songs. I write a lot about love - shocking, I know - as well. I aim primarily to write songs about things that touch us on a deeper level, but hopefully in a way that hasn't been done a hundred times before.

How has it progressed over time?

I would say my music has progressed in that my songs have become a bit more contemplative. My first song was called "Nana's Still Askin' For Milk" about how my grandmother was displeased with what my father and I had picked up from the grocery store. I hope I address more complex issues than that these days, but then again - that definitely was a difficult topic ha!

How do you hope people will feel when they listen to your music?

My sincerest wish is that people feel something when they hear my music. Some of my greatest joy has come from people walking up to me and saying that one of my songs resonated with them. I do have simple pop songs, too, but I probably most value the songs that are raw and emotional.

What has your personal journey been like? When did you discover that you loved music?

As I alluded to before, I've actually been playing guitar since I was a little kid. My mom and dad encouraged me to play little concerts at the Englewood Library or Borders Books (back when they were in business), and I often participated in talent shows on cruises when I was younger, as my mother was a travel agent and we used to get discounts. This kind of love of performing was instilled in me at a young age. Music has been in my life since I was a little boy, and I was about as Beatles-obsessed as they come (I was Team John, now I'm more of a Paul guy!). I would listen to anything I could get my hands on, and I think I knew right out of the gate that music was my passion.

What are your goals as an artist? What would you like to accomplish by the end of this year?

I would say my primary goal is just to reach as many people across as many places as I can. Music to me is about connection and people are what make life so interesting, so I most look forward to sharing my experiences and sharing in others experiences along the way.

On a more practical level, I hope to be able to be a self-sustaining original music artist. I recently made the jump to becoming a full-time musician, and I've found that playing cover gigs has been financially sustainable for now (knock on wood) and has really helped me stay sharp. That said, as much as any songwriter would respect a song like “Sweet Caroline” - eventually you do tire a bit of playing it!

Who would you like to meet?

As far as people I'd like to meet - I'd say if you're reading this interview - I'd like to meet you! In all seriousness, there isn't one kind of person so to speak. I've found that no matter what your background or where you're from, there are often more commonalities than differences between us. That shared human experience is what makes connecting with others so special.

Are there any artists, bands, or producers who you'd love to collaborate with one day?

Boy, as far as collaboration goes - the list is long! I'm sure I, along with everybody else, would dream to some day work with Paul McCartney. I also greatly admire a lot of the musicians I listen to - Max Bemis of Say Anything, Hayley Williams of Paramore, Brandon Flowers of The Killers, Ben Platt, Regina Spektor. I'm one of those people who really delves into what inspires people and what peoples' stories are. I'm not writing fan fiction or anything (though if you're into it - I can't knock it!) but I do enjoy trying to get to know the people behind my favorite songs.

Do you have any shows coming up?

On Friday 11/15, I'll be taking part in a Citywide Charity Event sponsored by NorStep Productions down at Bourre in Atlantic City. On Wednesday 11/20, I'll be at Havana in New Hope, PA as part of Pat Foran's Music Showcase, and the next day - Thursday 11/21 - I'll be opening for Nick Clemons at Crossroads in Garwood, NJ with Mike Rocket.

What words of advice or encouragement would you give to someone who wants to follow a similar passion, or is maybe facing obstacles similar to what you've faced?

Oh man - I actually have a lot to say about this. I spent almost ten years second guessing music as a career path. Please - don't doubt yourself. If you love something - pursue it with reckless abandon. And here's the biggest reason why (besides all of the YOLO stuff I could say and the preaching I could do about how life is too short): things do get easier.

If something scares you because you've never done it before - well guess what - it's only the first time ONCE. For the longest time I thought "Oh, I want to play in Hoboken, but I'm kind of nervous." I started with open mic’s and met some of the best people I've ever known. Then breaking into NYC a bit seemed like an insurmountable obstacle. Now I play shows in New York all the time and have come across tons of wonderful people over the course of different events I've attended. I'm hardly the world's biggest success story and I hope my journey isn't close to its end yet, but at the end of the day I think I embody pretty well the idea that you should just go for it because the pieces come together along the way. What is at one point anxiety-provoking and replete with possible obstacles can often become second nature. And then - it's a lot of fun.

Black Rose Revival

Is there anything else you'd like to add?

I'd just like to say, please don't hesitate to reach out - not just about music! I'd love to hear from you as I love people as much as I love music. And keep an eye out for my new band, Black Rose Revival. We just got started last month, but it's myself with three other veterans of the NJ Music Scene - Phil Beam and Roy Brunston of RESURGE and Sergio Arsenio on drums.

Where can people find you online? (Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Soundcloud, Bandcamp, Spotify, YouTube, etc.

The best place for people to reach me is Instagram (instagram.com/rorydlasnow) or on my band account (instagram.com/blackroserevivalofficial).

My music pages are also on Facebook (facebook.com/rorydlasnowmusic) and (facebook.com/blackroserevivalofficial).

I have a couple of solo EPs and a single on Spotify and SoundCloud under my name and hopefully some BRR tunes will be to come as well.

Youtube and Twitter I have been trying to use more, but both are similarly able to be found by looking up Rory D'Lasnow or my band name, Black Rose Revival.

In addition, my official website, rorydlasnow.com, has a comprehensive list of all of the events I'll be a part of with press links/photos/videos etc - all that good stuff. Thank you for your time!

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You can also listen to Rory’s music on Soundcloud, Spotify, and YouTube.

Interview with Olivia Rohlfs

By Deaglan Howlett | Posted Tuesday, August 27, 2019

For fans of - Death Cab For Cutie, Boygenius, Sharon Van Etten

Olivia Rohlfs is a singer-songwriter based out of Bergen County. Having recently obtained a music degree from Monmouth University, Olivia assembled a band and headed straight to the studio. Its efforts will be her debut release, sometime in 2020. In the meantime, you can listen to a live session of her latest track “June 8th” on her YouTube channel. Olivia was kind enough to answer a few questions about her new project. Thanks again!

What is your background in music?

I like to think that music runs in the family... My grandmother was a singer, and my grandfather was a professional pianist who ran with the likes of George Gershwin and Irving Berlin during his day. Unfortunately, they both passed while I was young, so I never really got to press them for stories of their glory days, but I definitely think that I’ve inherited whatever made them both gravitate towards music. I didn’t really appreciate music too much as a kid— I loathed playing the clarinet and oboe in the band because it was the farthest thing from cool. It wasn’t until late high school that I bought a guitar off eBay and started to teach myself just enough to cover my favorite songs. I’ve become somewhat of an instrument hoarder since I bought that first guitar, and typically alternate between guitar, piano, ukulele, and mandolin.  

Fast-forward to present day, and I actually have my Bachelor’s degree in the Business of Music from Monmouth University. I spent most of my time in college attending, playing, and hosting house shows with the talented friends I’ve made in Asbury Park’s flourishing music scene. I’ve interned for local labels like Sniffling Indie Kids in New Brunswick doing everything from digital marketing to website design and PR. I’ve played in bands with friends for Monmouth University’s record label, and hosted a weekly radio show on Monmouth’s radio station, WMCX 88.9. After graduation, I took an assistant job at Hearst Communications in NYC to get a handle on my student loans but still find myself spending every spare minute that I have spent consuming, playing, or writing music.

When did you first start writing your own music?

This is sort of an embarrassing question for me to answer because I feel like I’m such a late bloomer with my songwriting. I only started writing my own stuff in 2017. After years of simply covering my favorite musicians and attending their shows, I would always walk away thinking, “I could write like that” or “I could do that.” It’s only now that I’m actually getting around to it. “Time You Knew”, which will be on the record, was actually the first song that I ever finished. I’m pretty proud of it considering it’s my first. The only reason that I actually wrote it in the first place was because another musician had been writing songs about me and I felt inclined to return the favor—so thanks to that guy!  

Who are your influences? 

The list of artists that I love runs long. My first CD that I got as a kid was a Beach Boys Sounds of Summer album. Growing up, my parents played a lot of Bruce Springsteen, Beatles, and Tom Petty, so those classics remain some of my favorites. Some modern artists that I love are all over the place… Phoebe Bridgers, Maggie Rogers, Your Smith, Haim, Kacey Musgraves, Vulfpeck, Anderson .Paak, Bleachers, Margaret Glaspy, The 1975— I could go on, but I’ll spare you. 

How long have you been working on this upcoming release?

 These songs have existed since 2017, but we finally went into the studio for the first recording session this July. I wrangled a few of my friends to back me as my band, and we’ve finished almost half of the record already. “Time You Knew” and “June 8th” are the first two tracks that I’ve been holding onto for a while. With those two in the bag, we have a couple sessions left to round out the record with a few more songs. It doesn’t have a name or a release date yet, but I’m figuring it all out as I go. I’ll likely release a single while wrapping up the loose ends of the record. My fingers are crossed for a release in the late fall of 2019 or early 2020… 2020 has a nice ring to it.

What musicians did you work with?

The best part about being a music major in college is that your school pals quickly become some of your favorite musicians. I was lucky enough to have Owen Flanagan (drums & percussion), Justin Murray (lead guitar), and Jon Bass (bass) as my wrecking crew. Owen is a top lad, my former roommate, and one of the most sought-after drummers in NJ. If you’re out at a bar on a Saturday night where there’s live music, the odds are pretty good that Owen’s there on drums. I still remember playing “Time You Knew” for him and my other roommates in our living room the day that I wrote it because I was so excited. We joked that whenever I needed a drummer that I’d come after him, so he’s really been in it from the beginning. Justin & Jon are two peas in a pod that lived around the corner from Owen and I when we were in school. We always had a lot of fun together and I admired their musicianship when I watched them play in other bands. When it came down to picking musicians to work with, this crew seemed like the obvious choice. 

Where are you recording? What made you choose this place?

We are recording with Adam Vaccarelli of Retromedia Sound Studios in Red Bank, NJ. It seems like everyone and their mother has been going there to record, and I’ve liked everything that I’ve been hearing. Jon, Justin, and Owen had all recorded there multiple times over with their own projects, so I trusted their referral. I finally got to see what all the fuss was about, and Adam lived up to his reputation. He’s a cool dude who really knows what he’s doing, and has some awesome gear in the studio. He is so easy to work with and fosters a really fun vibe in his space. 

Self-releasing? What is that like?

Adam will be mixing and mastering the whole project, with me hanging over his shoulder adding touches here & there. My obsession with perfection can be crippling and it’s really hard for me to leave good enough alone. I think that’s why I’ve put off releasing anything up to this point—I’m afraid it won’t live up to my own expectations. I’m very happy with how it’s going so far, and hopefully the music will speak for itself once it’s out there in the world. I plan to self-release the record… I really couldn’t care less about the numbers that it does on Spotify or anything like that. I’m simply putting the music out there for the people that have come up to me after I finish playing a set to ask where they can find “that one song”. I’ve grown tired of telling them to look me up on YouTube because that’s the only place my original music exists as of right now. My family and friends have generously gushed over the songs that I’ve played for them, and I’m over the moon that I can finally share my music for real this time.

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You can keep up with Olivia Rohlfs and new music on her YouTube channel.

Interview with Joe Mifsud (Singer, Songwriter, Musician)

By Sonia Schnee | Posted Friday, May 17, 2019

In 2013, Bergen County singer, songwriter, and multi-instrumentalist Joe Mifsud released his sophomore album, Stay Calm And Carry On. Drawing from a variety of influences, his music has a decidedly alternative/rock/pop bent with new folk/lo-fi elements via his side project, Here for Now. (On top of that, Joe is also a standup comedian. Check out his Facebook page for upcoming performance dates.)

Now in 2019, Joe is ready to jump back into the scene, writing new songs, playing shows, and meeting/collaborating with like-minded creatives and music lovers. Before you listen to his new work, be sure to check out some of his past gems, as well as our interview below to find out more about his personal journey and hopes for the future.

What’s your name, where are you from originally, and where are you based now? 

My name is Joe Mifsud. I was born in New York, New York but grew up in Harrington Park, NJ in Bergen County. I currently reside in Harrington Park.

Tell us about your musical background. You do a bit of everything -- singing, songwriting, and playing multiple instruments. How would you describe your genre/style?  Who are your influences?  

I've generally described my music as a cross pollination of several influences, but if I HAD to describe it to people I usually say my sound would be if The Beatles met The Foo Fighters. Or just very Foo Fighters-like in nature.

Musically, I play guitar, bass, drums, sing, write my own lyrics and music. I do enjoy a lot of different types of music. Growing up, my dad really enjoyed Motown music, Doo-Wop music and the Jazz and Soul Singers. My mom listened to all different types of Spanish Music and top radio hits of the 80's. My sister listened to a lot of jam bands like Phish & Dave Matthews Band along with early 90's Alternative Rock. My brother was listening to 80's Metal and Progressive Rock like Rush when we shared the room together when we were kids.

My childhood best friend Kevin and I listened to a lot of 90's Alternative Rock as we grew up as well as a lot of Classic Rock. We would raid his parents' Classic Rock collection. My influences are many to name but a short list would include The Beatles, Pink Floyd, Led Zeppelin, Creedence Clearwater Revival, The Who, Black Sabbath, Nirvana, Pearl Jam, Radiohead, Foo Fighters. More importantly to me were the local influences, musical peers and my brother (who used to play guitar and bass in a band) and my dad (who used to sing in a barbershop group with his friends on the street corner).

What's the inspiration behind your music? How has it progressed over time? How do you hope people will feel when they listen to it? 

The main inspiration behind my music is relationships.
Not always a romantic love relationship,
but it comes from a very literary sense.
Man and nature.
Man and woman.
Man and himself.
Man and society.

I appreciate the very therapeutic value of songwriting. I tend to write very autobiographically as a way of coping and understanding myself and the world around me. I have been fortunate to use music and songwriting as a way to develop my personal and artistic voice. I hope that people find a connection and comfort in what I bring to music. Music to celebrate the good times and good memories and bring people together. Music to find solace and comfort in during the hard times. I hope that people are able to connect with the music on some level that strikes them even if it is just the tone or sonic soundscape or the lyrics and message or all of it. 

Ultimately, I would like to give back to music what it gave to me. Music gave me a sense of home, comfort and purpose.

What has your personal journey been like?  When did you discover that you loved music?

My personal journey started when I was young. My earliest memories of music were listening to Spanish music in the living room and tapping out the rhythm on the conga drum with my dad. The first song that really struck a chord with me was The Beatles' “Lady Madonna” because of the ragtime-type groove and the cartoon-like vocal section that reminded me of a Looney Tunes song. I loved when there would be classical music in cartoons when the characters would have a play off of classical songs on piano. Queen's “Bohemian Rhapsody” is my favorite rock song of all time. Nothing quite captured my imagination in so many ways about the possibilities of Rock than “Bohemian Rhapsody”! As I got to be about ten or eleven years old, the first band that I was able to claim as my own was Nirvana. “Smells Like Teen Spirit” and its accompanying music video blew me away! When I saw Dave Grohl playing the drums, I knew that I wanted to do that! Play Drums! Play Music for a living ! I felt empowered by Nirvana and their music because, similarly to The Beatles' effect, they were just normal people making great music. I felt like I could do it, too, and that it wasn't totally beyond me.

 I discovered that I loved music very early on in my life and that it became a goal and a challenge that I accepted to be like my heroes. I wanted to learn to sing, write lyrics, play instruments and write my own original songs with a level of proficiency.

What are your goals as an artist? What would you like to accomplish by the end of this year? What kinds of people would you like to meet?  Are there any artists, bands, or producers who you'd love to collaborate with one day? Do you have any shows coming up? 

My goals as an artist are to have the music reach people and touch their lives in a positive way. By the end of the year, I would like to have accomplished jumpstarting a life in music and sharing music that I've written with as many people as possible and through multiple channels such as live shows, interviews, social media, streaming services, reviews and podcasts, personal connections, etc. I would like to reach people that genuinely love, support and appreciate music and the arts. I am open to meeting people that are creative, passionate and awesome! There are many artists, bands or producers that I'd love to collaborate with one day. At the top of my lists would be Rick Rubin for producer and Dave Grohl for Musician.

I do not have any shows coming up, but I am looking to plan shows for 2019 and beyond and will keep you updated!

What words of advice or encouragement would you give to someone who wants to follow a similar passion, or is maybe facing obstacles similar to what you've faced?

Words of advice or encouragement that I would give to someone who wants to follow a similar passion or is maybe facing obstacles similar to what I've faced: Believe in yourself. Trust your voice. Trust the process and trust that an audience will be attracted to your vision. Always stay true to yourself and the original vision because when it's all said and done you have yourself to be accountable to.

DO! Don't let anxiety or insecurity or excuses counteract productivity. Your older self will thank your younger self. 

Create, Create, Create! Hopefully you get a job where you have the time and income to fund and realize your art without interference.

It may take time but stick with it!

I will be your fan! 

Where can people find you online (Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Soundcloud, Bandcamp, Spotify, YouTube, etc.)?

Official Music Website: https://www.mifmusic.com
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JoeMifsudBand 
Bandcamp: https://joemifsudband.bandcamp.com/
Spotify:  https://open.spotify.com/artist/1l3m0OFBgPLMmgssBl3cBO
Instagram (Seldom Used but I should use it more): https://www.instagram.com/mif95/?hl=en
Twitter (Seldom Used but I should use it more): https://twitter.com/JoeMifsudBand 

YouTube (Videos including live, promo and music videos that I've uploaded):  https://www.youtube.com/user/davidbedert/videos

YouTube Official Music from the Albums: 
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCyz5pd9_aSOU0ROmAMHGWlg

For the Streaming Music, the music is available on all streaming platforms such as Apple Music, Spotify, Deezer, Amazon, Tidal, Google Play, etc.

My side acoustic/indie/folk project is called Here For Now. The album is called Letters Home.

Here For Now Facebook : https://www.facebook.com/herefornowband/
Here For Now Bandcamp : https://herefornowthereforlater.bandcamp.com/album/letters-home-there-for-later-edition

Also available on all streaming music platforms - Here For Now Letters Home

Kay Roman - "Teen Angst" (EP Review)

By Sean McCall | Posted Friday, August 10, 2018

Kay Roman is a singer/songwriter based out of Oakland, New Jersey.  Her most recent EP is titled Teen Angst which was released in September of 2017.  Kay wrote the whole EP herself, and it was mixed and mastered by Joey Papa.  The record opens with a short, but catchy song titled “Mordecai” which introduces a minor-mood for the record.  The song gradually layers more vocals and synth instrumentation as the “Mordecai, Mordecai” hook loops around.  I love the way this song closes with an almost eerie noise after saying “I’m so insane, it’s not enough.”

The second song on the record, “Go Away," immediately switches the mood up with a happy-sounding progression and horns opening up the song.  The chorus of this song is genuinely awesome.  It’s simple and catchy and states “Go away, go away, I don’t need you here to mess with my heart today” with a beautiful melody.  This one put me in my feels in the most uplifting way if that makes sense.

The third track on the record is called “See You in the Halls” and opens up with a line that says “went to the store and bought a GameCube controller” which immediately intrigued me!  Turns out this song is another one that pulls at the heartstrings.  The intro gives me a Julien Baker-vibe, and when it picks up the music reminds me of Tigers Jaw and The Hotelier, for a few comparisons.  I really love the structure and dynamics of this song specifically.  It’s one of the longer tracks but you don’t notice because there’s constant change in a seamless way.

The fourth song on the record is called “201” which brings back the singular acoustic guitar and vocals while sneaking in some melodramatic cello.  I really like that the vocals follow the guitar melody in this song.  There are also some very interesting chord choices in the transitions of this song that are super tasteful.  This track seems to be talking about an old place that she used to call home but can no longer bring herself to do so.  This is definitely another feeler. 

“Give Me Attention” is the 5th track on this EP.  The instrumental in the chorus of this song immediately reminded me of Tigers Jaw's self-titled EP.  This is another track of dealing with the idea of “insanity” which is something that’s a common theme in a lot of people’s lives that is tough to speak up about.  So far, Teen Angst is a record that talks about a lot of hardships that are difficult to talk about through simply speaking, but this EP takes those situations and turns them into something moving and relatable that you can always move your head to. 

The record closes with a track titled “Blue Jay.”  This is another emotional journey that’s done beautifully.  It’s super soft for the majority of the song, but when the full band comes in around 3 quarters into the song, you just feel.  There aren’t any more lyrics after that point in the song, and there doesn’t have to be.  I think this song ended the record perfectly. 

Overall, I was thoroughly moved by this record.  I believe it talks about a lot of issues we can relate to.  Even if it’s on a broad spectrum, and we of course don’t know the stories behind these songs, there’s something there that I can grasp onto personally.  A lot of people say you should listen to happy music when you’re sad, but I lean more towards records like this one. It has a perfect combination of music that’s uplifting and almost joyful, and lyrics that may break your heart and hit home. 

My personal favorite song was “Go Away” from Kay Roman's Teen Angst if you’re looking for somewhere to start. 

Ventanas Restaurant & Lounge (Fort Lee, NJ)

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Ventanas Restaurant & Lounge, Led by Restauranteur Alex Duran and Celebrated Chef David Burke, to Open at SJP Properties’ The Modern in Fort Lee

New Cuban/Asian/American-Inspired Fine Dining Establishment
to Serve as Destination Along the New Jersey Gold Coast

FORT LEE, N.J. (July 30, 2018) — SJP Properties today announced that restauranteur Alex Duran will bring a new fine dining experience to The Modern, the premier luxury development anchoring the revitalized downtown district of Fort Lee, N.J.  World-renowned Chef David Burke will join Duran in the role of Culinary Managing Director.  The kitchen will be overseen by Chef Ricardo Cardona.  Named Ventanas Restaurant & Lounge, the restaurant will serve an eclectic menu of Cuban/Asian/American-inspired fusion fare, with a picturesque setting amidst the new central park that is being created between The Modern’s two iconic 47-story, all-glass residential towers.

Duran, who owns the highly successful Son Cubano supper club in West New York, immediately recognized the opportunity to bring a new dining and entertainment concept to the flourishing Fort Lee community.  With Ventanas, Duran will capitalize on the restaurant’s unique indoor-outdoor setting to create a modern, energized dining experience for guests that blends Asian flavors with Cardona’s cutting-edge Latin cuisine and the farm-to-table American gastronomy of Burke, a Fort Lee resident.  Cardona is the executive chef of Lua, Sofrito and Hudson River Café in New York City, and serves as the chef for the New York Yankees during home games.  Burke, who regularly makes appearances on the TV show Iron Chef America, lays claim to one of the industry’s most accomplished resumes as both a chef and restaurateur, including numerous ‘Chef of the Year’ awards, and restaurants such as Tavern 62 and Woodpecker in New York City; Drifthouse in Sea Bright, N.J.; and the recently announced The King Bar and Red Salt Room in Garden City, N.Y.

Offering a spirited sense of buen gusto (good taste), Ventanas’ décor will evoke a seductive feeling of Havana’s nightlife past, with a modern twist.  Guests will have access to three main venues within the restaurant: a tapas lounge, a cosmopolitan bar, and a full-service dining room complete with chef’s table.  On the patio, guests can relax at the outdoor bar and lounge, or enjoy a meal with family and friends under a sweeping pergola.  Live music and a DJ booth will help to create a celebratory atmosphere for after-dinner entertainment.

In total, the 7,000-square-foot restaurant will be able to accommodate 150 guests in the dining room and seating for 50 people at the bar, with a private event space that can welcome another 75 patrons.  The outdoor terrace will offer seating for 75 to 100 guests, with a location that offers stunning views of the nearby George Washington Bridge, providing the ideal venue for special events.

“Latin dining is intended to be an immersive experience, with the ambiance just as important as the food itself,” stated Duran.  “Chef Cardona is recognized for his fusion of Latin, French and American cuisines, and his creativity and dynamism will set the tone in providing guests with an inspired dining experience.  When coupled with Chef Burke’s unmistakable influence, and the lively, yet elegant environment we have created with our décor, we know Ventanas will quickly become a favorite destination along the Gold Coast.”

The planned opening of Ventanas is the latest milestone to be heralded by SJP at The Modern, where leasing for the property’s second phase of luxury rental residences recently began.  A mirror image of The Modern’s first tower, the second tower completes Fort Lee’s iconic new skyline, signaling the borough’s arrival as a coveted residential destination.

In total, The Modern’s two phases comprise 900 luxury rental residences and an incredible 150,000 square feet of indoor and outdoor lifestyle amenities that is unparalleled among rental properties in the region.  The property was designed by Elkus Manfredi Architects in collaboration with SJP.

Adding to the ultra-luxurious, resort-style experience afforded to residents of The Modern will be the availability of room service and poolside food service at each of property’s two outdoor infinity pools, courtesy of Ventanas.

“Welcoming Ventanas to The Modern will not only create an exceptional new dining experience for the region, with two renowned chefs, an inspired menu concept and a stunning park setting.  It will also serve as an incredible amenity for residents of The Modern, who will soon be able to order room service and poolside food service as if they were living in a five-star hotel,” stated Steven J. Pozycki, CEO of SJP Properties. “We pride ourselves on providing our residents with the very best in lifestyle services, and this latest amenity makes it clear that The Modern is the true standard for luxury living in the region.”

The new, nearly two-acre public park that will house Ventanas is currently underway, with the park and restaurant expected to be open by the end of the year. Inspired by Manhattan’s Central Park, the park will enhance walkability and connectivity, offering residents of The Modern and Fort Lee alike a vibrant green space for recreation and enjoyment. In addition to the new restaurant, plans for the park include integrated water features, landscaped walking paths, a public pavilion and a walking bridge.  Outside the park, SJP is donating the funds for a 13,000-square-foot building to the Borough of Fort Lee for the creation of a large public theater and a public museum referencing Fort Lee’s historical ties to the film industry.

SJP Properties is developing The Modern in partnership with PGIM Real Estate and Northwestern Mutual.  The Bozzuto Group is The Modern’s exclusive leasing and management firm.

For leasing inquiries or more information please visit The Modern at www.rentthemodern.com or call 201-461-2888. Follow The Modern’s social media pages on Facebook at www.Facebook/rentthemodern and @rentthemodern on Instagram. 

About SJP Properties

Founded in 1981, SJP Properties is a privately held, vertically integrated real estate company specializing in the development, management and operation of luxury residential and Class A commercial properties in the New York Metropolitan region.  Well known for the creation of unparalleled lifestyle-focused developments, SJP’s residential arm is committed to meticulous SJP’s leadership has established relationships with many of the industry’s leading investors and financial institutions, as well as world-class architects, consultants and construction firms to ensure precise delivery of properties that incorporate the latest amenities and technology advancements for today’s discerning residents.  For more information, please call 212-335-2200 or visit www.sjpproperties.com.

About Chef David Burke

Blurring the lines between chef, artist, entrepreneur and inventor, world-renowned Chef David Burke is one of the leading pioneers in American cooking today.

He is a graduate of the Culinary Institute of America and a student at Ecole Lenotre Pastry School in Plaisir, France.  Burke’s mastery of French culinary technique and his unique American creativity were confirmed at the age of 26, receiving 3 Stars from the New York Times at the River Café. Burke won France’s coveted Meilleurs Ouvriers de France Diplome d’Honneur, and is the only American to ever achieve this honor.  Burke also won the Nippon Award for Excellence from the government of Japan for overall skill and technique. 

As a culinary pioneer, Burke received the ultimate honor: A United States patent awarded to him for the unique process by which he uses pink Himalayan salt to dry-age his steaks for up to 100 days, which led to the citing of Burke’s Primehouse as the number one steakhouse in Chicago and the U.S.

In 2016, BLT Prime by David Burke in Washington D.C., and Tavern 62 by David Burke in New York City opened.  In 2018, Burke launched the David Burke Catering Company; Drifthouse by David Burke; King Bar by David Burke; Red Salt Room by David Burke at the Garden City Hotel; the revamped The Blue Hen; Salt & Char and Morrisey’s at the Adelphi Hotel in Saratoga, N.Y.; and now Woodpecker by David Burke in New York City.

Over the years, Chef Burke has become one of the most recognized chefs on television, with appearances on Top Chef Masters, Rachael Ray, NBC’s TODAY Show, Celebrity Taste Makers, and Elvis Duran and the Morning Show.  Currently, he can be heard on AM970 every Tuesday morning with Joe Piscopo.  In addition, Burke has published two cookbooks, Cooking with David Burke and David Burke’s New American Classics.